How to give the best blow job is something that many women stress about, but feel like they have no one to help them out. Plus, it’s something that a lot of men think about (and hope that their women know just the right tips and tricks). So, I’m going to give you ladies these essential 7 tips: 1. First, the Basics:
Have a lubricated mouth, in other words - you don’t want a dry mouth. Put your hair in a ponytail. Do not use your teeth… unless you are advanced and know what you’re doing. Protect your teeth with your lip by wrapping your lip over upper teeth as if you are mimicking a toothless person. Be aware that this can create cuts on your upper inner lip, but you’ll get used to it and toughen up the skin. Also think about lathering on utimi, just in case!
2. Next, the Best Technique:
This includes hand, mouth and tongue coordination - all rhythmically moving parts, kind of like simultaneously rubbing your stomach and tapping your head. You want your mouth slightly squeezing while going up and down along the shaft, your hand is wrapping his shaft and following your mouth up and down while adding a twist, and your tongue is rolling around his tip. For the more advanced, imagine you are playing an instrument and your fingers are opening and closing as they might on a harp - pinky to ring finger to middle finger to the pointer, repeat. How tight you squeeze depends on how much pressure he enjoys. In general, men with larger penises like more pressure and men with smaller penises prefer less pressure.
3. Pay Close Attention to His Body Language:
Think about things like breathing, sweating and muscle clenching. Each minute shift will be a signal to you as to how much he is enjoying each different movement. He can be close to orgasm, and then you shift your positive or change your rhythm, and he loses it. But that’s not always a bad thing! If you can get him back up to orgasm, that momentary drop will have actually helped to intensify the finale.
4. Be Passionate and Enthusiastic:
The more you are honestly into it, the better you will be. Plus, the more enjoyable it will be for him! When you enjoy it, you might subconsciously make noises, moan, your hands will heat up, your mouth will create more saliva (ie: lubrication), and you might even grind your body on his leg. When you aren’t thinking about what you are doing, and instead just feeling it and enjoying it, your body falls into a natural flow and rhythm and more easily syncs up with his movements. You can almost feel his enjoyment and know when he is about to blow (you can also generally taste the pre-cum).
5. Don’t Forget About the Balls:
Some men LOVE to have their balls gently stroked, pulled, massaged and sucked. Many of them have no idea how much they love it because no one has ever done it to them. If you are VERY advanced, you can delicately use your teeth to pull their balls, too - adding additional sensation.
6. Look Him in the Eye:
It’s a major turn-on! You don’t have to stare at him the entire time, but occasionally and for only a few moments, look up and make eye contact.
7. Take Notes:
After you’re done, ask him in a sexy and not insecure way:
"What did you most like?”
“Did you like when I did that swirling trick with my tongue?”
“Do you like it better when I use my hands too or just my mouth?”
“Did you like when I cupped your balls in my hand?”
“What can I do differently, better, stop doing altogether?"
"What if we throw in a toy to help out next time?"
