A strap-on is a sex toy device that includes a dildo, which is generally penis-shaped with latex or plastic material. The dildo is held in place by a harness, which attaches to the hips of the person wearing it. Or used by connecting the dildo to some sort of harness that straps around the waist. Strap-ons are used for penetrative sex, either vaginal or anal, which is also called pegging when a woman uses a strap-on with a man.
How To Use A Strap On?
1. Find the right one
There are two elements to take into consideration when looking for the right strap-on: The harness and the dildo. A strap-on harness should fit comfortably but not chafe or reduce right into the skin too much. When considering dildo, consider the products you as well as your companion prefer, be it soft, flexible silicone or even more textured product, like plastic.
Talk about the appropriate dimension with your companion, as you most likely don't desire anything inadequately small, or overwhelmingly enormous.
2. Lubricate
If you want to use your strap-on dildo for penetration, use lots of lube. This ensures that your partner won’t get hurt when you’re thrusting inside. Also, make sure your partner knows to tell you anytime they need you to stop and apply more lube. For easier cleaning process, use a condom. A condom is lubricated as well, so you won’t have to apply more lube, and it’s easier to clean after.
3. Communicate with your partner
Communication is always paramount in a sexual relationship, but it becomes imperative during strap-on play. Discuss strap-on use before introducing it into your sex session. If you’re the wearer, it can be challenging to gauge intensity accurately, so listen to your partner’s feedback and needs.
4. Watch some video of using strap on
If you’ve never used a strap-on before (or even if you have), it’s incredibly useful to see them in action. You might pick up on little techniques, see ways people get creative, and generally demystify the whole ordeal. Which is why amateur porn is the way to go—real sexual partners are far more likely to have actionable takeaways than professional performers who may have techniques that look good but aren’t actually enjoyable.
5. Adjust and Control it
Before using a strap-on dildo with a harness attachment, it’s a good idea to adjust the harness for better control of the dildo. A strap can be less easy for the top to control than a flesh cock, so if something isn’t working, don’t be afraid use your hands to adjust the toy so it’s hitting properly.
6. Take it slow, and don’t forget foreplay
If you’re the one wearing the strap-on, let your partner guide you. Don’t skip on the foreplay, and come in too hot. Kiss and caress your partner. Experiment with oral sex, since it can be a significant turn on for some, and play with angles and depth of penetration
7. Start by straddling
To ease your way into the strap-on experience, begin with the wearer lying on their back. This position allows the penetrated partner can control the sensations and depth. Once you’re comfortable, you can use strap-ons in most sex positions.
9. Don’t be afraid to practice thrusting
Be patient. Learning to use a strap-on well takes practice—you’re wielding a new body part, essentially—so be patient with yourself if it’s your first time.
“I’m not embarrassed to admit that I humped some pillows early in my strap-on days,” says Lily. “It helped me get in the zone and figure out the different ways I can roll my hips. Also it was basically masturbating, so win-win.”
Speaking of, don’t forget grinding. “Speaking as a bi woman, I can say people of all genders forget that penetration doesn’t just have to be going in and out and pounding away,” says Spencer. “Roll your hips and grind that strap.”
3 Types of Utimi Strap On
Utimi Strap On Dildo: Material: silicone & nylon & dacron & lace
Suit: bandage knickers, dildo without testis
Function: detachable, wearable, intercourse sex for lesbians
Size: adjustable(one size fits most)
Length: 8 inches
Diameter: 1.5 inches
Utimi Double Sided Strap On: Material: leather & silicone & nylon
Size: adjustable(31.5'' waist size or under)
Length: 7.08''(big dildo); 4.33''(small dildo)
Diameter: 1.88''(big dildo); 1.49''(small dildo)
Net weight: 446g
Color: black and flesh color
Package list: a piece of strap-on(2 dildos are included)
Utimi Triple Strap On: Material: silicone & leather
Size: (dildo)
L 7.09"*2.24"*1.65"/18*5.7*4.2cm
M 5.12"*2.36"*1.3"/13*6*3.3cm
S 4.06"*2.36"*1.3"/10.3*6*3.3cm
(pants) elastic 23.4"~25.6"/59.5~65cm
Weight: 18.8oz/533g
Package list: 1* strap on dildo set
