What’s so hard about using a vibrator? Nothing, except, if you’re lucky, some body parts. But I’ve found some ways to play that can make for a very memorable pilgrimage to Pleasantville. As with any purchase, be sure you got all the parts you paid for. Then, right out of the box,start the good habit of cleaning your vibrator before each use. ( I like the Afterglow Wipes) If you’re like me, you tend to try detouring around written instructions and learn by doing. But do yourself a favor and read up … give yourself the ultimate vibe experience.
I know it’s hard to be patient, but if your vibrator is chargeable, the manufacturer doesn’t do that for you. Start it charging and then take your time reading the instructions, choosing some mood music, sipping a glass of wine, and reveling in the sweet anticipation. Before you know it, the wait will be over. If you chose battery operated, splurge on new batteries to avoid getting stopped short before your home run.
If your new toy is intended for partner play, I suggest treating yourself to a solo tutorial first. Becoming familiar with your vibrator’s features and learning what does and does not please you can help you and your partner make the most of togetherness. Getting to know your vibrator may be one of your favorite “me times” of all time! Find your center, relax, and pace yourself … experiencing pleasure is not another task that needs checking off your to-do list. Learn your vibrator’s movements, speeds and modes by running it over your arms, face, legs and nipples, building the intensity at a decadent crawl.
I know you know the way, so close your eyes and head downtown for a new sensation. Use gentle pressure on your vulva and clitoris, exploring north, south, east, west, and all points in between. If you chose a penetrating vibrator, there’s no time like the present. Ease it into your vagina, navigating and experimenting to discover what feels best. Curve it towards your g-spot, give it a twirl it, press it and rub it against your walls at varying pressures, all the while trying out its different speeds and modes. You are not in a hurry and no one’s watching! (Unless you want them to).
Once comfortable and savvy with your vibrator, you can test and enhance your sexual response. Some say their vibe gives them multiple orgasms. There’s also the self-tease: get yourself almost to peak, then reduce the speed, and repeat this a few times. A gradual approach to the jackpot can reward you with a more intense orgasm. It may feel so good you almost can’t take it, but I suspect you’ll find a way to muddle through.
Learning how your vibe serves you best is time well spent and a treat you deserve. As a happy graduate of Vibrator 101, you are sure to enjoy your new toy!
