I prefer a thick water-based formula for anal play because the thickness offers a bit of a cushiony feeling and the water-based formula is safe for use with silicone toys.

Sensual massages are a 2 in 1: a massage that feels great and a lead in to sex. Technically, any massage can lead to sexual activity, but a sensual massage is meant to seduce as well.

Toys, toys, toys. There is a veritable feast of play things out there made specifically to bring on female ejaculation.

If your new toy is intended for partner play, I suggest treating yourself to a solo tutorial first. Becoming familiar with your vibrator’s features and learning what does and does not please you can help you and your partner make the most of togetherness.

Depending on the type, the toy may have different specialized characteristics and purposes, but in general, it is designed to be pleasurable through vibration or penetration.