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5 Ways To Push Your Sexual Limits

Looking for something new and fun to try? Worried that you might embarrass yourself in front of your partner? Here are some things you can work on by yourself to improve your bedroom game. Once you’ve mastered them, you can try them out with your partner and wow them with your 100% natural skills!

1. Talk Dirty

While talking dirty during sex comes naturally to some people, others tend to keep quiet except for some moaning and groaning. If you’re not a natural dirty talker, it might feel a little embarrassing to start suddenly spouting off in the middle of sex. You can ease the awkwardness with a little practice beforehand. The next time you’re playing with yourself work in a few dirty words or phrases. Talking dirty to yourself might feel weird, but it’s not much different than actors reciting lines in front of a mirror. After a week or two of talking dirty while masturbating, you’ll be experienced enough to do it with your partner or just give up on it all together.

2. Film Yourself

As long as you’ve got a smartphone, it’s never been easier to make your own sex tape. Simply turn up the lights in your bedroom and find a good place to prop your sex phone. It might be necessary to move some furniture around if you don’t have a convenient dresser or nightstand nearby. Then get ready to go to town. You’ll probably end up trashing several videos before you get the lighting, angles, and positions just right. After you get done the filming, remember to keep your videos safe and secure. You don’t want to accidentally share it with your parents or have it get hacked! When you get used to performing on camera, you can talk with your lover about making their own solo movies before you both star in one together!

3. Backdoor Play

This is one thing you’re definitely better off trying by yourself before doing it with a partner. Even basic anal play can take some practice. And anal sex requires even more extensive preparation. Lay the groundwork for safe and comfortable backdoor play by stocking up on plenty of lube beforehand. Gently tease your rear before moving on to anal penetration. Start off small with just a finger or two before trying something bigger like anal beads or a butt plug. 

4. Stamina Training

No guy wants to come up short in the bedroom. If you’re worried about your endurance, you can work on your stamina by masturbating. The next time you find yourself with a little time on your hand, try to last as long as possible. If you have to stop for a little bit to “cool off,” then feel free. After some practice, you’ll train yourself to last longer so you can go the distance in bed!

5. Flexibility

Trying new positions is fun… unless you’re not physically up to the task. You can change that by working on your flexibility. Regular stretches and exercise will help increase your range of motion. You can also join a yoga class to further improve your flexibility and start lifting weights to build up some extra muscles. After a few weeks of effort, you’ll start noticing some real results. You’ll feel better and finally be able to try that position in the Kama Sutra you’ve always wanted to do.

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